It’s not common to hear quirky news, but according to npr.org, the Central Asian government of Tajikistan has restricted a long-time cultural characteristic by imposing several limitations on wedding ceremonies.
Some of these include that there can be no more than 150 guests, no more than three hours long and there can only be one kettle of plov, a cultural dish.
Violators of this decree will be fined up to $300 by a patrolling government representative.
Having grown up in that lifestyle from my father’s Indo European upbringing in Armenia, I am very familiar with the lavish parties thrown by my paternal relatives.
There is loud, instrumental music and Greek-like dancing, but what distinguishes it greatly from other cultures, particularly American, is that there is an impressive amount of food that is fit for a king.
I’ve seen foreign guests mistake the appetizers as the main course from the wide variety and generous portions offered, and it’s always amusing to see their jaws drop and their expressions of disbelief when the first of several parts of the main courses arrive.
During dessert, I see them stealthily wrapping the delicious, delicate pastries inside napkins and storing them inside purses.
However, the interesting thing is that these hosts are not as financially stable as their foreign guests, yet have the hospitality nature of a millionaire. It’s this magnitude of human spirit, in spite of economic hardship, that I admire in these impoverished societies.
The strong sense of optimism and adherence to tradition demonstrate the resiliency of these people and should serve as an example to others.
At first, I was disheartened to learn about this culturally-suppressing law, but after researching a little bit about Tajikistan, I realize that it’s for the best, economically.
According to the U.S. Department of State website, Tajikistan is one of the poorest countries of the world that frequently experiences electricity shortages of two to four hours a day, especially during the winter months.
This decree would help, according to the government, prevent the residents from bankruptcy.
The president of Tajikistan, Emomali Rahmon, also banned gold teeth and the use of cell phones at universities.
Though it’s culturally rich, I’m glad I’m not there.
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Anoushka Valodya/Editor